How will we see our loved ones in heaven?

When we die and go to heaven, will we see our children as our children and still have the same bond — if not greater — now that we are in heaven? In other words, will I know that I am looking and talking to my son or daughter once we are both in heaven?

It is a truly beautiful thought that one day we will be reunited with our loved ones in the glories of heaven. None of us have any “inside knowledge” as to what it’s like after we die. In fact, St. Paul seems to suggest that it is well beyond our limited experience and ability to comprehend (1 Cor. 2:9). So there is some degree of speculation involved.

We certainly know that death involves both change and continuity. We also know that relationships are taken to a new level. For example, Our Lord says we will no longer be “married” in heaven (Matthew 22:30). But in my opinion there is no solid reason or biblical basis to think that we wouldn’t “recognize” our loved ones in heaven.

I would add two additional considerations. We know that our relationships forged through the waters of Baptism are even stronger than flesh and blood realities, and that these relationships come to full fruition in heaven. So our unity in Christ will be a bigger deal than our blood relationships (cf. Luke 11:28; Mark 3:31-35).

Second, we know that we will be fully happy in heaven, so whatever “change” may have taken place in our familial relationships will only be for the better and not a source of grief!

Courtesy of Leon Suprenant